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Peripheral
28th November 2005, 02:40 PM
Probably something I won't get many replies to. (I'm glad that've got an off topic section)

You know when you feel like everything is going wrong? Work gets to you? people get to you? Even when you wake up in the morning you're just not in a good state of mind?

Normally I'd talk to someone about what was wrong or try and work out what is going wrong with my head. But I can't work it out anymore. The more I think about it the more i feel like I should pack up and leave, start new somewhere else. Considering this isn't really an option I'm open to suggestions.

Normally cheers is my sign off. But hey... it's a rainy dull day

Peripheral

eastcoastdrifter
28th November 2005, 02:48 PM
Perpherial I know that same feeling Ive been feeling this way for around 10 months but I m getting over it now. Iguess the best way it to just simplify your thinking I guess . and forget about the negative Maybe you need to find a new hobbie when I feel like crap I usually just hope on my Bike and do laps then afterwould I Feel like Crap phyisally but mentally my problems seem to disappear and feel better well its just a suggestion.

Monster
28th November 2005, 02:49 PM
You'll feel better once you've started here and after some Oporto's tonight.
You've got mates right here dude. I'll do everything I can to help

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eastcoastdrifter
28th November 2005, 02:51 PM
never really like Oportos more of a KFC fan my self

Peripheral
28th November 2005, 02:53 PM
Kebab's... I love Kebab's
But oddly enough they don't seem to make my head feel any lighter. Who knows... Maybe I'm just having a bad run... And have been for... well... let's just say a while. Thanks Loki. You'll probably cop most of it. hahaha. Eastcoast if I had a push bike I'd probably try that

Dorio86
28th November 2005, 02:55 PM
I think that's called depression, but yeah I think we all have days like that, but not on an ongoing basis. After a hangover can make you even more depressed.

crazy86
28th November 2005, 03:03 PM
I get like that, And all i can think is that picking up and leaving everything is the best option, but it all seems just too hard.

Best thing i can say dude, is try and focus on one thing at a time, and in the times when you start thinking too much (you know what i mean) find something to really get your teeth into (like polishing all the wheel nuts on your hachi!! http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/blink.gif )

Peripheral
28th November 2005, 03:08 PM
Few quick details... Honestly I've been this way for months and months. I had a facade at one stage that was almost unbreakable. But as you can tell it broke. Now I just... pfffttt... no idea. All the issues I thought I had I've thought through and dealt with. No mood lift... Serious lack of sleep. And I bite my nails now

eastcoastdrifter
28th November 2005, 04:22 PM
same but make shor you wash your hands before you do that

verm69
28th November 2005, 05:16 PM
i've been biting mine since i was about 7ish, but i've gotten better latley. Used to bite them until they bleed!!! and then i would bite off the skin on the tips of my fingers... it was GROSSE!!! dont' do the skin one anymore...

chin up Peripheral, life keeps going on! and on... and on... and on!!! http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/laugh.gif http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/laugh.gif

djscheppy
28th November 2005, 05:30 PM
i know the feel in the black sheep of the family always gotta do shit to get some notice from my parents (mostly my dad)

they want me to be more like my older rother but im nothing like him
and l8ly they have told me to get out of home but seeing as i have a shit job and dont have any cash i cant

just found out most of my "mates" arent really mates when im not around and life pretty crappy for me at the moment
just need something solid to hold on to b4 i give it all away and drown

im so sick of being down

DRFT - 86
28th November 2005, 05:38 PM
let the shit shit fly out the window dude......... empty negatives and do activities u enjoy.. keep ur head up and spend time with good mates....... I get like this eveynow and then as well...... most people do.. my mate is like this.... hes just bailin overseas next year... get away from it all, try something new.. it will all even out man.. life isnt a bottomless pit... gota come up somewhere...
and u got mates on here remember that......... Ive never met u personally but from talking to u on here I can tell ur a champion... http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/smile.gif
dont get to down on urself mate.... http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/smile.gif

Course_Out
28th November 2005, 09:17 PM
Hey man, sorry to hear your having a shitty run at the minute, I know exactly how you feel though.

I fully felt like that nearly 12 months, my uni work went to shit, hated work, got dumped from a long term relationship and it all sorta snowballed and I felt like i couldnt pull my sorry backside out of the hole I had dug.

But I'm not there anymore, so I figure I might be able to give you some worthwhile advice. Set yourself some goals, just little stuff that you know you can do, but might have to stretch yourself a little to achieve. You will feel a million times better if you can do something liek that, trust me, then it will be heaps easier to block the crap stuff out that is bringing you down.

Hope that helps mate, but if it doesn't you've got plenty of friends on here.

Cheers, Nat

ae86
28th November 2005, 09:20 PM
thats exactly right http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/smile.gif

dont set big long term goals, just little ones you know you can acheive.. and that way you are working towards your long termer.. know what i mean ?

Can you pinpoint what it is that makes you depressed? Maybe find the source of your problem and then target in on fixing that ?

Wally
28th November 2005, 09:29 PM
i was like this around july... everyhting was f***ed up, i hated work, tafe everything... wanted to go back to school with mates...

but then i just tried to forget about it, then i finally had the balls to ask out my gf on the 12th of August and now everything has been f***ing excellent!!!

you'll be right mate, we should all go have a drink http://www.ae86drivingclub.com.au/forums/emoticons/tongue.gif (assuming your in syd)

Monster
28th November 2005, 10:51 PM
Of course everything is awsome for you... look at your GF!!! Total glamour, as for us lonely street racers... some times its hard to turn to someone, or find some one to turn too

Blood Child
28th November 2005, 11:07 PM
i'm here. i'm pretty fucken useless, but i'll do what i can to help.

smile and laugh randomly. it makes u feel better and it makes people wonder

djscheppy
28th November 2005, 11:15 PM
woot now my gf is being a bitch again i think this is it....again

ae86
28th November 2005, 11:36 PM
man, noone seems to be happy at the minute !

Monster
28th November 2005, 11:56 PM
I am... @ the moment im Friggin awsome, just content and cruisy!!!

RedSuns
29th November 2005, 12:16 AM
Originally posted by eastcoastdrifter@Nov 28 2005, 11:48 AM
Perpherial I know that same feeling Ive been feeling this way for around 10 months but I m getting over it now. Iguess the best way it to just simplify your thinking I guess . and forget about the negative Maybe you need to find a new hobbie when I feel like crap I usually just hope on my Bike and do laps then afterwould I Feel like Crap phyisally but mentally my problems seem to disappear and feel better well its just a suggestion.
good call i get that feeling alot i just hop on my board and run away from everything for a few kays then when im tired i start the trek back home and feel better

DRFT - 86
29th November 2005, 10:30 AM
Originally posted by Blood Child@Nov 28 2005, 10:07 PM
i'm here. i'm pretty fucken useless, but i'll do what i can to help.

smile and laugh randomly. it makes u feel better and it makes people wonder
that is so true. . . . . I do this all the time.. .. ..

Dorio86
29th November 2005, 10:36 AM
I feel better after taking my dog for a walk, exercise helps with your well being, eating the right food also.

Peripheral
29th November 2005, 10:39 AM
Cheers everyone... At the moment I'm just letting everything get a head start on me. I'll catch up with it later. For now. I just wanna work on my haichi. It doesn't make anything better. But while I'm tinkering with it I just don't think.

I think I need time away. Eh... I'll go to Homebake instead

Monster
29th November 2005, 10:45 AM
Working on your Hachi makes everything better!!!

Peripheral
30th November 2005, 08:05 AM
Well... it's all over now... back to being completely alone... I literally broke down last night. I also cancelled going to Homebake on saturday and I heard there's a drift event on? I might wander down there and see some action...

Thanks for all the input people.