Funny thread... so, there are no chicks on the internet huh? Well, here's how it is: I love confidence, even on the edge of arrogance. Don't like desperados. Not saying that all women are the same but that's me. Too protective is not hot. A confident guy will laugh at other guys checking out his girl. An insecure one will be threatened by it. The reason we're interested when you're taken is because you're feeling confident and comfortable and of course there's the fun of stirring up your girlfriend.