she will have insurance
you will need quotes 3 in most states
and an assessor with most likely come out - which isnt bad, they just make a low ball offer (if the quote is $3000 they will offer $1600 or something, which you should probably take)
you can say the car has sentimental and its not structural damage etc etc
you should get $1500-3000 for that, the money is yours to do what you please with