#1 - Make sure you have oil pressure , first turn the engine over by hand and then use the starter motor to gain this (disconnect fuel pump relay or take injector connectors off)
#2 - Once you have oil pressure , start the car to ensure there are no oil leaks or coolant leaks
#3 - Rev the car at idle for a bit , varying the revs constantly up to 3k
#4 - Go for a drive, load it up by going up / down hills and don't baby it
Agree on the mineral oils for the first 1k. The quickest way to start an argument around mechanics is to ask how to run in an engine usually, as everyone has differing opinions about what works and what doesn't. But keep the revs relatively low for the first 1000kms.