1 - Do proper prep. If not you will be doing this whole process again in a few months. File/sand/brush back to bare metal. Then use rust converter. Sounds like you may have done that already.
2 - I then prime with a spray primer
3 - Read instructions on bog tin. Mix bog and apply, Try and ensure all parts are above the final surface you want. If the bog sets too quickly, don't try and keep applying it, you'll always get holes in it. Stop, wait for it to harden, then mix a new batch and continue.
4 - Take your time.