The proportioning valve is different because the JDM rears usually run discs, assuming you have a disc rear end then DEFINITELY put the proportioning valve in. If you are still running the ADM prop valve its no wonder you're munching rear pads.
The ADM front's are exactly the same as the JDM's anyway, the only difference is they are wider to allow for the wider vented rotors. They require the same amount of fluid, pressure & bias as the JDM ones.