Photos are good, but don't get bent over on the album costs... You can make your own through a printing company a hell of allot cheaper than the photographer will. Just make sure you get high res copies of the photos. Also put a few cheapish but good digital cameras around the place for guest to take their own photos, you'll be surprised at how good some of your guests photos are.

Best advise regarding a wedding is to NOT DO IT.

J/k, but nah on the night , you and your wife take 15-30 minutes aside together to soak up the atmosphere and look around and comment about people who are there and the night in general. That will be all you remember from it for years to come. And the other thing is to "enjoy" yourself and not forget why you are there, who gives a toss if your drunk uncle hits on your mates girl friend and gets laid out for his efforts.