Just quickly, there's a difference between static coefficient of friction and kinetic coefficient of friction. It is normal that you will have to apply more than 60 lb.ft of torque to move it again. Whether that number is higher than 80lb.ft, I don't know.
Undoing would be the same as always. Undo from outside in, in several sweeps like you said. Yep. measure length of stud for stretch. Reused studs is fine as long as they're in spec. Hell, you can reuse head bolts even in performance applications.
Why are you going to lift the head off the block? Just remove the studs to check for stretch and torque it back down. You can just loosen it to where clamped down but not pulling down and it'll keep the seal intact. Would rather do that than break the seal and have to clean all the cool stuff off the head gasket and apply the copper spray (which you didn't need to with a coated MHG).
It's a metal headgasket. You are trying to crush solid metal with other much smaller metal. I really doubt it. The head bolts will stretch before that considering the stress applied through the 10 head bolts at ~1cm diam vs like 400cm2 or whatever surface area of the head gasket.
Also, I have 2 torque wrenches. I put a 10mm in-hex drive socket on one torque wrench and a 6 point 10mm socket on the other. Set them to the same setting and have them fight each other. They normally click off at pretty much the same force. I'm satisfied to use them then. Sometimes I'll try another setting too if it's something real sensitive. It's not exactly calibrating but it's better than nothing, and snapping bolts!