Dont worry about locating the box, no one would know where it would be because your car isn't an ae101 and therefore the loom will be somewhat custom
So i suggest actually looking at the ecu pin outs and finding the diagnostic wire. Below is a link to ae101 4agze pin outs off club4ag, all you need to do is bridge pins TE1 (most always a blue wire with white trace) and E1 (a brown wire, which is one of the ecu earth wires). If you haven't hooked up a check engine light yet you will need to do so(again refer to the link below to find the pin out - the ecu earths this pin and does not provide power to the light).